Thursday, December 31, 2015

Happy New Year!

We're about to head out for a New Year's Eve party at our friends' place across town, but I wanted to get one last post in before we go. For the first time, we're spending it apart from Lucas as he is celebrating at his best friend Zach's and we're going to the aforementioned party. In "honor" of that, I decided to  post a couple of pictures of Lucas and Zach from their hockey game against each other a few weeks ago. (and yes, they were delighted when they found out they had the same number)



And with that, I bid 2015 goodbye. Have a very happy new year! See you in 2016!

Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Merry Christmas 2015

My apologies for the delay in Christmas pictures. We've had some sort of social gathering nearly every day since Christmas Eve, and since adult beverages tend to be involved, it's easy to forget about the computer in the late night hours when I tend to post.

So without any further adieu, here are the highlights from Christmas morning. Starting off with some gift openings. You'll notice Lucas's eyes are bug-eyed and psychotic in some of them. For whatever reason, he tends to partially close his eyes in a lot of pictures that use a flash so I told him to force his eyes open. The results were amusing, particularly in the 4th picture below.









Marilu shows off her main gift from Lucas and me, an Ottawa Redblacks jersey. That's our CFL team, for those of you from out of town.


After Lucas opened his presents, we sent him downstairs to get something, at which point he discovered this fine piece of equipment.



Lucas and I model our (almost) matching Kylo Ren t-shirts.


Every year, Lucas gets Lego sets, and I always want to do them myself. This year, he got me my own.


Don't worry, I haven't forgotten Christmas Eve or any other events surrounding Christmas. I'll have those posted soon!

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Preparing for Christmas

As promised, I've got pre-Christmas stuff in this entry. Specifically, the visit to Santa at the mall as well as our trip to the tree farm.

First up, Santa. We went to the same Santa we've gone to for all but one mall Santa visits. Lucas realizes that it's not the "real" Santa (it's a helper), but he enjoys the visit all the same since the helped reports back to Santa. Here are my two favorite photos.



For the first time ever, we went to a tree farm to get our Christmas tree. Accompanying us were my mom and Kevin, who were visiting us that week. It was a fun time since they had other stuff to do besides cutting down the tree. Speaking of which, it took us what felt like forever to choose a tree. It's so much easier when they are all wrapped up and sitting in a parking lot since there's not much to see, and it's basically a crapshoot. I don't know if we'll do this every year, but I'm sure we'll do it again at some point.






Getting ready to head over to Tracey's for our annual Christmas Eve get-together. I'm sure I'll have pictures of the boys from that so keep an eye out for something tomorrow. And if I don't talk to you before then, have a Merry Christmas!

A Boy and His Elf

It's 1:30 in the morning, and I just wrapped up a Lego project involving Lucas's Elf on the Shelf, Awkward. Don't remember what an Elf on the Shelf is? Read this post from last year to get caught up.

Since Awkward "goes back" to the North Pole after Christmas Eve, tomorrow is the last day Lucas will see him until next year. Now as I said in last year's post, by the time Christmas rolls around, we're usually getting desperate for new ideas on where to put Awkward and aren't too sad to see him go. However, I find I'm a little anxious and/or depressed with his departure this year.

You see, Lucas is 8 years old and will be 9 next year. Based on various articles I've read online, a majority of kids stop believing in Santa by age 9 and by 10, it's only about 1 out of 5 kids who still believes. So clearly, the jig will be up soon, if not next year then likely the year after that, and the thought of that makes me sad.

I know there's been some debate in recent years as to whether parents should "lie" to their kids about Santa. I am firmly in the corner of YES, screaming it from the rooftops, in fact, for this particular argument. If I were to name the top 5 things that made childhood magical for me, Christmas and Santa Claus would definitely be at the top of that list. As far-fetched as a lot of it is as an adult, it was wonderful as a child, and if I could, I'd love to still be able to believe that a jolly fat guy in a red suit flies through the night once a year, delivering toys to all the good little boys and girls of the world. So why would I want to take that away from my son?

To an extent, I believe that once a child stops believing in Santa (and Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy, etc), once they give up on that "magic," they have moved on from being children and have started that march toward teenager or tween or whatever comes next. And I'll be honest, I don't want Lucas to be there yet. I still love him as my little boy who looks up to us and thinks we can do no wrong. In my mind, once he moves past Santa, he'll be one step closer to moving away from us, emotionally and socially at first, and then further down the line, physically.

I know I'm probably overthinking the situation (I've been accused of that before), but that's why I sit here late at night, a little bit of a lump in my throat, typing at my laptop as Lucas sleeps and Awkward waits downstairs for what could be their final meeting.

For what it's worth, I fell asleep early so Marilu set up Awkward as you see in the picture below. As you'll recall from my post about Santa's video message a couple of days ago, Santa didn't render his naughty/nice verdict this year so we decided to have Santa send Lucas a direct message so he knows where he stands.


Since I'm typing this right now, I obviously didn't stay asleep, waking around 11:30, a common problem when I go to bed too early. The perils of being a night owl! Wanting to add a little more to Awkward's last night of 2015, I created the following message in front of the basement TV using Legos.


It may be a little hard to read, but it says, "Goodbye Lucas." I'll be honest, I thought it was going to be a simple task that I would wrap up in 10-15 minutes. However, Lucas has a LOT of Legos and trying to find the right pieces (mostly small ones) in that massive pile was an ordeal. It ended up taking me over an hour. I'll acknowledge that part of that is because I am just plain awful with Legos, but most of it was spent searching.

Anyway, I hope he appreciates this, and years from now, if he happens to read this as an older kid (or should the blog survive, as an adult), I'd just want him to know that doing stuff like this was some of the best times I've had as a parent: helping to create the magic that makes a child a child.

Back tomorrow (or later today, as the case may be) with Santa pictures.

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Portable North Pole 2015

Click here to see Lucas's video from Santa this year (via Portable North Pole). Unfortunately, they switched it up so that it doesn't have as many features as previous years. Most importantly, there isn't a part that indicates whether the child is on the nice list, the naughty list, or somewhere in between. It's available with the premium video, but I didn't feel like buying it when I made the video. Lucas was disappointed, particularly since he's definitely on the nice list this year, so I may have Santa send a last minute video in the next day or two, letting him know he's good to go.

Monday, December 21, 2015

Football Videos

Whoops, it's been longer than I thought since my last post. What with my mom visiting for a week, studying for exams, and then all the hoopla to do with the holidays, I guess I lost track of time. I'll make up for it with daily (or near daily) updates between now and the end of the year.

Before I get to the good stuff, I wanted to mention that we saw the new Star Wars this morning. I won't spoil anything, but I will say it was fantastic and everything I was hoping for. Let the countdown begin on Episode 8!

Toward the end of the November, I posted the rest of the pictures from Lucas's football camp and mentioned I would upload videos. Well, better late than never I guess so here they are.

First off was a blocking/pushing drill. I think it's safe to say the other kid had the size advantage here.



The next two videos are plays where Lucas is either a running back or full back. He's probably supposed to be blocking in them, but oh well. He'll learn those moves next year. :)





Chatting up one of the coaches on the sideline.



And finally, even though he wasn't able to catch and/or tackle the opposing player with the ball, he hustled after him so that was good to see.



I'll be back tomorrow, probably with Christmas-related stuff.